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The Hidden Secret That Can Help You Manifest Abundance Effortlessly

The Hidden Secret That Can Help You Manifest Abundance Effortlessly

Ladies, let’s get real. I'm sure you have tried using law of attraction in your life but seen a yo-yo result.

Manifestation isn’t just about visualizing your goals or repeating affirmations.

Want to know The Secret Weapon in Manifestation?

It's self love!


It’s about genuinely believing that you deserve what you’re asking for.

Without self-love, this belief is shaky at best.

Remember, you can’t fool the universe. If deep down you don’t think you’re worthy, no amount of vision boards or mantras will bring your desires to fruition.

Self-love is the foundation that makes all other manifestation techniques work.

Self-love isn’t selfish.

It’s about acknowledging your worth, treating yourself with kindness, and recognizing that you deserve every bit of success you’re striving for.

Let’s dive into why self-love is your secret weapon in manifesting success and how to cultivate it in your daily life.✨

The Struggle with Self-Love🫣

First off, let’s address the elephant in the room: most of us struggle with self-love.

From a young age, women are conditioned to put others first, to be selfless caretakers.

We grow up hearing that taking time for ourselves is indulgent or selfish. This mindset can lead to chronic self-doubt, making it hard to believe in our own worthiness.

"To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness." - Robert Morley

One of my clients - a very successful restaurant business owner from a well to-do family managed a team of 40+ people and lived life on her own terms.

Sounds wonderful na?

Despite her achievements, she constantly battled feelings of inadequacy.

She worked tirelessly, often sacrificing her well-being - as a result she gained a lot of weight, her relationships fell out of sync. 

Her inner critic was always there, whispering that she wasn’t good enough. 

Sound familiar?

The Impact of Self-Love on Energy

What many don’t realize is that self-love has a profound impact on our energy.

When we neglect self-love, we’re essentially running on empty. Our energy depletes, our motivation wanes, and our ability to manifest our desires weakens.

Think of self-love as recharging your batteries. When you prioritize yourself, you boost your energy levels.

You start attracting positive experiences and opportunities because you’re radiating a higher vibration. This is the essence of the Law of Attraction: like attracts like.

Watching Out for Self-Criticism👀

Be mindful of your inner dialogue. We’re often our harshest critics, nitpicking every flaw and mistake. 

This self-critical attitude can sabotage our manifestation efforts. 

When you catch yourself being self-critical, pause. 

Replace those negative thoughts with affirmations of love and acceptance.

Let’s talk about Shruti, another entrepreneur. She was brilliant, innovative, and hardworking, but something was missing.

She had tried every manifestation technique under the sun, yet her business was stagnant.

One day, she attended a session of mine in which I asked her 

"When you look into the mirror - what do you see?"

Her response: "I don’t like to look into the mirror."

This was a bulb on moment for her.

She realized she had been neglecting herself, constantly pushing and never pausing to appreciate her efforts.

Shruti began a journey of self-love. She took time for herself, practiced self-care and gratitude, and embraced her worthiness.

The transformation was astounding. Her energy shifted, and within months, her business saw unprecedented growth.

Clients and opportunities started flowing in, almost as if by magic.

Five Ways to Practice Self-Love💝

1. Look into your eyes: Stand in front of the mirror and look deep into your eyes. "I am worthy, I am capable, I am enough." This simple practice can shift your mindset over time.

2. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no without guilt. Protect your time and energy by setting healthy boundaries in both your personal and professional life.

3. Self-Care Rituals: Dedicate time each day for activities that nurture your soul. Whether it’s a relaxing bath, reading a good book, or taking a walk in nature, self-care is essential for maintaining your well-being.

4. Celebrate Small Wins: Don’t wait for monumental achievements to celebrate yourself. Acknowledge and reward your small successes. This builds a habit of recognizing your value.

5. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Build a supportive network of friends, mentors, and colleagues who uplift and encourage you. Let go of toxic relationships that drain your energy and self-worth.

FAQs on Self-Love and Manifestation

Q: Is self-love really necessary for manifestation?

A: Absolutely! Self-love is the foundation that supports your belief in your worthiness, which is crucial for effective manifestation.

Q: How can I start practicing self-love?

A: Begin with small steps. Practice gratitude, treat yourself kindly, and make time for activities that bring you joy. Affirmations can also help reprogram your mind to embrace self-love.

Q: What if I struggle with self-love despite trying?

A: It’s a journey, not a destination. Be patient with yourself. Consider seeking support from a coach or therapist to help you work through deeper issues of self-worth.

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Hi! I'm Shreya

Author of Abundance Workbook & your Abundance Attraction Coach.

I hold space for hundreds of women who want to be extraordinarily successful & become the wealthiest women in their family.

I support women entrepreneurs manifest more success in their business using a powerful combination of mindset reprogramming, energy practices and marketing strategies.

I am self made entrepreneur, army wife living a gypsy life, mommy to a baby girl and 2 dogs.

I believe in living a life in fullness of who I am, experiencing freedom, love, and joy to the fullest.

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